It's obviously a message for you my lovely girl
My daughter,When you're born in this world it doesn't mean you are your parents reflections. You start a new life God give you, nobody involves. A girl baby doesn't have to play cooking doughs nor Barbie. You can play with cars or trucks or playing dirt in the garden. You should study, not very hard. Not to get the first rank, study and learn what you've never knew before. If you already are, find something new. Yes, you can dress anything convenient to you. There maybe catcaller increase higher level at your age, but don't worry I'll be there to protect you. I'll punch their eyes and snitch the 'well-manner' mouths. You want to cover your body full to make yourself save and protected? No it's not you whose should behave, it's their mind. If those other girl who did so, they want to make themselves look wiser than you, don't copy that. You are your less and more. You can travel anywhere you want, get lost find something new and take a deep conversation inside your soul. What that journey brings you into. Travel isn't about going far away and let them people know where your ass is at now, it's about your war with your worries.
You may finally met a man, yes I'll be very fierce. I said I'll protect you, maybe I'll hit his balls if he plays you. I don't know what you'll call it at your time, love or other bizarre words you'd created. You finally become a wife of somebody. You are you. What you've done and what you've been thru should never been changed. If you had many hobbies, you have career, your links. Nothing need to be changed.
So somebody may say wives should serve her husband, dress well not to ashamed the family, cooking delicious dishes, house 24hours clean, steady tidy clothes and be there smiling not to panic about anything. You shouldn't be a bother to your family, be dedicated and independent like having your own professional job. So it's like you need to balance those all without falling down on your walks everyday. You can be a wife at your own version, if that somebody disagree you. I'm standing in front of you to shut the morons down. What's important your family is not satisfied of your 'jobs' but well educated and happy. Your kids can do better than you nor worse than you, never force them. Your husband can have alone time without you and your children. Separate things well. Manage it wisely. Find their own path with you no involve, give them freedom since they're born, like I raise you. Raise them well too.
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